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Looking after your wellbeing

Caring for someone else is important but so is caring for yourself. Looking after your own health and wellbeing helps you continue caring for as long as you choose to, and benefits both you and the person you support.

Practical steps that can make a difference

  • Take a break – even an hour away can help. Regular breaks prevent exhaustion.

  • Request a free Carer’s Assessment from Essex County Council to explore what support may be available.

  • Check your benefit entitlement – financial worries can have a big impact on wellbeing.

  • Register as a carer with your GP – you may be eligible for priority appointments, vaccinations and an annual health check.

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Physical Wellbeing

Small changes can have a big impact:

  • Eat well – aim for a balanced diet with fruit, vegetables and wholegrains.

  • Move more – walking, gardening, housework or gentle exercise all count.

  • Sleep matters – try relaxation techniques and seek support if caring duties are affecting your rest.

    If caring is becoming too physically or emotionally difficult, reducing or stopping caring is not “giving up.” It is your choice, and support is available to help you plan next steps.

Mental Wellbeing

The Government’s Five Ways to Wellbeing offer a simple framework:

  • Connect – stay in touch with friends, family and other carers.

  • Be Active – choose movement that suits your ability.

  • Keep Learning – try something new or rediscover an interest.

  • Take Notice – practice mindfulness and be present in the moment.

  • Give – small acts of kindness boost wellbeing.

Managing Stress

Caring can be stressful, and it’s important to recognise the signs early. Symptoms may include anxiety, low mood, difficulty sleeping, irritability, muscle tension or exhaustion. Long-term stress can affect your physical health, so don’t ignore how you’re feeling.

Helpful guidance is available from Carers UK on spotting signs of depression and building resilience.

Did you know April is Stress Awareness Month?  There are lots of free resources available from The Stress Management Society.

Adult Carer Wellbeing Toolkit

We’re pleased to share the Adult Carer Wellbeing Toolkit developed by Carers Trust. This practical resource has been created to support unpaid carers with their emotional and mental wellbeing and can be used independently, within peer-support groups, or by organisations and support workers delivering wellbeing sessions.

The Toolkit includes two sections:
Dealing with Emotions: exploring common feelings carers may experience, with supportive activities, coping strategies and useful links.
Maintaining Wellbeing: offering simple ideas to help build positive wellbeing habits into everyday life.

There’s no right or wrong way to use the Toolkit – Carers can choose what feels most helpful to them.

Please note: this resource is designed to support ongoing wellbeing and is not suitable for use in a mental health crisis. If urgent support is needed, please contact Samaritans on 116 123 (available 24/7).

How can Action for Family Carers help you?

Action for Family Carers has a range of services to help you manage and maintain your wellbeing alongside your caring role. This includes:

Adult Carer Support: in West and Northeast Essex: Information, advice and guidance, practical solutions to address specific challenges and support for emotional wellbeing.

Time4You Wellbeing Grants: small grants designed to enable you take a well-deserved break from the pressures of caring and have a positive impact on your wellbeing.

Adult Carer Support Groups: in West and Northeast Essex: Providing the opportunity to connect with other local carers.

Whole Family Support: independent and responsive support for Carers and their families in Chelmsford District.

Activity Groups:  We hold Active Minds and Keeping Active groups in Harlow, Epping and Dunmow for people with dementia or memory loss.

Respite Day Centre: We provide day care for older people in Maldon, which also provides a few hours break for family Carers giving them some precious time to call their own.

Counselling: in West and Northeast Essex: The emotional burden of caring can be enormous. Our trained counsellors give children and adults a safe space to talk about difficult feelings, thoughts and experiences.

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